Suddenly I was thinking of a theory about how it does not matter much how the things are said, more like who says them. Commonly someone will find something disrespectful at time, obviously things goes the wrong way of course, by taking too much trust saying things you should not when you don’t know the person, say if it’s a long time friendship things said between them flow differently rather than if an stranger says them it will “affect” more the outcome and be taken as “disrespectful” some people might find sexual comments disrespectful or some “flirts” of course sexual comments are out of hand if you don’t know that person so let’s skip that for now.

When it comes to flirts and other things usually you find it “disrespectful” just because you don’t know that person or maybe you do, you just not in to that person and reject their comments. That said is does not means it was disrespectful comment it is just that person was not glad to hear it from you rather would of like to hear it from someone she/he was in to. For instance many flirty people will tell you quickly “am married” or “I got someone” but they are just having a fail-safe a quick way out to avoiding you, let’s face if they found that person interesting in anyway the so called “I got someone” would have never pop-up unless brought up in to a conversation, which leads to my point. Is not the How things are said is the Who which matters.